Waste of money I’ll fitting wore than once stirrups came aloose

so I read the reviews and I say reviews because I could have sworn I read more. now viewing this product I only see one review WHICH IS WHAT I WENT BY ….but anyway…. I am a size medium usually. maybe a large depending on material . I’m 5’4 , 168lbs . I have thighs and butt okay lol so with that being said, I will be returning these or giving them away. I’m just so upset right now. they are definitely true to size. because if I had a medium. it would be a perfect fit . there’s really no stretch but does have a good quality to them.