Looked faded

not the best quality, it is really soft, but the crochet and sewn ends aren't fastened/ tucked in so there's random threads hanging. i would be scared to wash this. IT SHEDS so it gives a dog fur look. i didn't realize there was a collar but it would look 5x better without it. it's large and sits weird. i asked for a second opinion and was told i look like a 40 year old librarian with too many cats. fits slightly oversized